PUBLIC APPOLOGY [ ../msg_board/viewtopic.php?TopicID=16051 ]

Gray-Wolf
06-12-2004 at 11:07 PM

PUBLIC APPOLOGY

Ok I apologize for calling everyone Jerks in the post in the whiners forum and im sorry that i kept making bad choices (posts and bevaior) on STF and the server and Bringing my Life messes into the Server and STF forums, i Should not have and im truly sorry now for it and No Dave Kate didnt offend me at all on the post in whiners and i am sorry for stepping in. I just thought it was kinda mean that people were saying i need Counciling and Yes Paul im not to mad at you cause i was the one who asked the question about that. And everyone i know always says to stick up for myself so when people (some say i need counicling) i stuck up for myself

Im truly sorry for all the Negativity i have caused (dont know if its a word..) and i shall not ever create a post like " Fight Today" and all the other ones i did in the past. I understand if you still want me to leave or dont think im telling the truth on this apology Well it is true.

And hope some of you can forgive me the way i acted on Server and Forum

Sorry to all STF members and higher and to the people that are new here.

And Lunchmoney I am sorry for yelling at you in Pm's and i forgive for saying those one opposite things you sent me if you remember them and Stacey i think knows what pm im talking about i sent it to her.

[Edited by Gray-Wolf on 06-12-2004 at 11:11 PM]

Richard
06-12-2004 at 11:12 PM

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oldfart
06-12-2004 at 11:13 PM

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Richard wrote:

ROFLMAO !!!

CatzEyes93
06-12-2004 at 11:15 PM

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Aww... now that was very nice of you. Thanks for the follow up appology.

Ya know... I always say, it is always easiest to eat crow if it is hot and sweet. Well... if it is sweet, it means your initial words wern't too harsh, and if it is hot, it means you attempted to make up sooner rather than later. (later would make it a cold dish of crow to eat)

So in this case, maybe eating crow wasnt sweet, but at least it was hot dish!

Brian
06-12-2004 at 11:18 PM

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Justin you are on extremely thin ice and I've been too busy to form a final decision on what just transpired but I will tell you that if you are allowed to stay the pity parties end here. The problems involving you end here too. There is no need to go into details, you know fully well. And there is no need to drag out this issue with a buch of replies to what I've just said (by anyone, not just Justin). That is all I have to say for now.

Insomniac
06-12-2004 at 11:20 PM

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actions speak louder than words...

Richard
06-12-2004 at 11:22 PM

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as does pictures

Batman
06-12-2004 at 11:30 PM

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Im glad u appoligized, I hope you get off on the right foot.

LunchMoney
06-12-2004 at 11:36 PM

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FYI, going to counseling is not a bad thing. I've been married for 5 years and my wife and I started going to counseling to help us interprate(sp) our feelings and desires with one another. People change, feelings change, and we don't always realize the negative behaviors or actions that we are doing. If we do realize them, then we don't realize what affect they have on others that love you.

Counseling is a good thing, it help you understand what you do, what others do, and what it means to you and others.

Don't think that going to see someone is a bad thing. I went to a counselor when i was 18 after a dip in depression. I hated it then because I wasn't use to telling the truth and being honest with what my actions were. I am a better person for it. I'm not glad I went and I"m sure now that it helped. My counselor made ME pay him whatever I thought I could afford and what I thought I was getting out of it. I dont' know if my parents subsidized(sp) it at all, I just paid what I could myself and he told me to not worry about the rest!

You comment about forgiving ME infuriates me to no end. I was never in the wrong with you and appologized to you to make you quit being a donkey's behind about the whole issue.

If you decide to stick in game, "I'll see you in game"(tfc) and take out my aggressions there. Like I said before, we should set a time and date to get together in game to settle this. Have you considered the TFC mulch night this friday? I'll be there playing a class I play less than 2% of the time. I'd like you to register and be there regardless if your on my team or not.

oldfart
06-12-2004 at 11:36 PM

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god... I want to lock this 1 to

LunchMoney
06-12-2004 at 11:40 PM

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Never thought I would post this, but it's my honest feeling:

I wish Cookie was around to give us some real straight headed youth whisdom!

Cookie come back!

Canadianwolfboy
06-12-2004 at 11:42 PM

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lets just go on a locking frenzy old fart... just make me a moderator, and me and u could have some fun locking posts lol jk

Anyways i am glad this is all over... I just like to stick up for friends. Good Jorb Justin for apologising... I am afraid i owe some people an apology aswell... I did call u all jerks, and for that i am sorry...

~Thanks~

~Wolf~

[Edited by Canadianwolfboy on 06-12-2004 at 11:42 PM]

LunchMoney
06-12-2004 at 11:42 PM

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quote:
oldfart wrote:
god... I want to lock this 1 to

It's just more wood for the fire.

I'm doing my best to add some wood, but not so much kindling. I don't want it to make more sparks and ignite another thread.

Remember kids, when you are done with your campfire, douse it with water so it won't spread.

oldfart
06-13-2004 at 12:15 AM

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Canadianwolfboy wrote:
lets just go on a locking frenzy old fart... just make me a moderator, and me and u could have some fun locking posts

[Edited by Canadianwolfboy on 06-12-2004 at 11:42 PM]

you have to be selective in locking post, sometimes it's just not the right time.

oh and can I be frank with you

the day you make Moderator.... Hi I'm Frank.

DMP #8
06-13-2004 at 12:17 AM

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all im gonna say, is , this isnt the first time youve messed up, or the first time you done a "public apology". I guess, as whoever said, "Time will tell"

[Edited by DMP #8 on 06-13-2004 at 12:17 AM]

Happy-Fun-Ball
06-13-2004 at 01:10 AM

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Time for some more honesty from me, it seems...

I believe your apology about as much as I believe your leaving. I've read more of these "I'm Sorry" threads from you than I can count. You never learn, and you never change. You get in trouble, and then you say your sorry and get real quiet for a while... then we get back to the same old nonsense. If you were really sorry, you'd have changed the FIRST time this happened.

Yes, you have the capacity to change, Justin. While you are in thin ice with me personally ( I'll leave out your relationship with anyone also or all of STF, I speak only for myself ) your behavior and attitude CAN change. However, I'll believe it when I see it and not just because you say it for the N-th time.

If you want to stay, I'd advice the following:
You need to change your attitude here on the forums, and in-game. You frankly embarrass me each time I play in-game with you. You mock other people, laugh at them when you kill them, and make the game unpleasant for many people there with you. Don't bother replying to that, either... it's true. I have spoken to at least ten people who agree with me. It's true, and it's a problem.

You need to change the way you act here on the forum. I don't agree with Dave's advice of "only respond to posts & don't make them... and only say nice things". Thats not realistic IMHO. However, you need to think before you say things. The mess you started yesterday is inexcusable, and it's all because you did something without thinking about what may happen in consequence. You quit man. In real life if you say that to a boss... there are no second chances. Think about that.

And, lastly, you need to get a grip on your emotions and your anger. You have huge problems outside of STF as well. We know... you keep posting about them. Do not seek help from people online, rather as Geoff said - find someone you can talk to in person. Ask your parents to get you the help if there is nobody you can seek out on your own. You need the help, but nobody can get it FOR you... you need to at least take the first step.

This is the last time I respond to you, Justin. I'm done until I am convinced you changed your ways. I'm sorry if that seems mean, but frankly it's for my own good. I have too much else going on in my life to worry about yours any more.

Good luck, you need it.

Irish Nick
06-13-2004 at 06:13 AM

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Justin, If you keep doing this I am going to hunt down that Teacher and get her bar of soap.

Just remember, THINK before you speak

Sweet_Th@ng
06-13-2004 at 09:29 AM

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Justin, the apology was nice, and I know sincere, however....you need to stop the posting and let this cool down. The people here will NOT just sit by and let these forums become a ranting forum for your emotional needs. Sit back, listen and learn and Justin, RESPECT IS EARNED!

...remember, I'm here for ya!

[Edited by Sweet_Th@ng on 06-13-2004 at 09:30 AM]

Wicked-Wayz
06-13-2004 at 04:29 PM

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quote:
Sweet_Th@ng wrote:
Justin, the apology was nice, and I know sincere, however....you need to stop the posting and let this cool down. The people here will NOT just sit by and let these forums become a ranting forum for your emotional needs. Sit back, listen and learn and Justin, RESPECT IS EARNED!

Judy I totally agree with you

Peace [STF]W-W

LunchMoney
06-13-2004 at 11:26 PM

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so what is the deal Justin, did you quit, or is your appology part of the un-quit strategy?

What is your status here, have you decided yet if you've really quit or have you decided to pull your resignation?

I need to know, because only Members and above are eligible for the Bunny Award....If you have indeed quit, then you would not be eligible...

Something to think about

Gray-Wolf
06-13-2004 at 11:54 PM

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i want to stay

LunchMoney
06-14-2004 at 12:17 AM

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Gray-Wolf wrote:
i want to stay

Ok, I just never heard you actually say that.

Thanks for clearing it up for me!

"See you in game"

prang
06-14-2004 at 02:41 AM

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Gray-Wolf wrote:
i want to stay

I for one can respect that.

Gray-Wolf
06-14-2004 at 02:46 AM

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LunchMoney wrote:

quote:
Gray-Wolf wrote:
i want to stay

Ok, I just never heard you actually say that.

Thanks for clearing it up for me!

"See you in game"

Do you play dod or just TFC i could probably fit in a game of TFC if you would want id be pretty bad because i havent played for a while lol

Tengil
06-15-2004 at 06:33 PM

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quote:
prang wrote:

quote:
Gray-Wolf wrote:
i want to stay

I for one can respect that.

Agree!